Comments: What Is Having It All

Nicely done, Bou!

BZ!

Posted by yak at June 22, 2012 11:05 PM

I, for one, would like expando pants. I was happy and content until you mentioned them and I realized I don't have any.

Posted by PeggyU at June 23, 2012 12:46 AM

This. Is. Perfect.

Posted by Ted at June 23, 2012 06:20 AM

Dosen't matter if you're a woman. "All" is just another way to spell difficult. I've had it "ALL" before, and I didn't like it. Good post!

Posted by Yabu at June 23, 2012 07:28 AM

Absolutely LOVE this post! ;-)

Posted by Nina at June 23, 2012 07:41 AM

Exactly! I read the same articles you did (I think) and was frustrated by them. I am so sick of the "mom wars"... You said it all perfectly!

Posted by Jody at June 23, 2012 08:24 AM

This really is perfect. Wish all young women could read it!

Posted by pam at June 23, 2012 01:24 PM

Very well put. I think some people confuse "having it all" with not having to make decisions.

Posted by Pogue at June 23, 2012 04:46 PM

Reminds me of that movement by women about 15 years ago that they had to 'find themselves'. Always drove me crazy. They would follow what the magazines said versus listening to their own internal ticker. My mom said it best to me... if you are content over 75% of the time, you are in a good place. Otherwise, look around and see what is making you unhappy and change that thing. You said it better..

Posted by vwbug at June 24, 2012 05:44 AM

Excellent words! I made my daughter who is about to leave for college read this. I'll probably leave it on her roommates' beds when we take her up there in the fall...

Posted by Mrs. Who at June 26, 2012 10:12 AM