Ummm, I can't really help you on this, but I can give two guesses:
1. Some women don't want to be slutty with guys they care about because the guy will think we're...slutty.
2. Some women don't want to hurt your feelings if we know you care more about us than we care about you.
I'm leaning towards the first one.
Thanks, Jen, but I'm leaning toward both.
We're not allowed to tell you.
Jennifer, that's going on your permanent record.
I think its a combination of both with an added dash of a sense of lack of worthiness of someone who REALLY does love them, and a sprinkle of the knowledge that if a man really does love them, they have less power over that man with sex than he does over them with his love.