You could be Lady Attila, and he could be Sir Attila. Lady Attila does have a certain "ring" to it. Just a thought from a humble History Teacher that dwells in your Realm here in California.
Hm. It might sound a bit like Lady MacBeth. Which people could find appropriate.
Thanks, 'Cuz, for being understanding and also for the linkage. I've posted my own notice about you.