Comments: I really should be asleep, but...

Go for it. That "me" time is so important, and it will work on you something terrible when you do without it for any amount of time. As much as I love, no need, to have people around, I also know I HAVE to have some Tammi Time. It's a must.

Good luck. You know we're all pulling for you!

Posted by Tammi at January 17, 2005 11:20 AM

I hear ya brother. A man needs his alone-time, and that never changes.

That one was a hard bit to teach Beloved Wife.

Posted by Harvey at January 17, 2005 01:36 PM

Why would it be an unreasonable goal? Actually, you need to have a tangible goal - it gives you something to shoot for. If your goal was "gee I'd like something better" - you haven't defined anything - what is "better"? You have defined what you want - that's the first step. You are looking to make it happen, that's the second step. It might take you a while to get there, but you know where you want to be!

As for the alone time - it's not just a guy thing. I like my alone time too. The hardest part about having small children around (when my kids were young) was the total lack of alone time. I couldn't even go in the bathroom by myself! Oh yeah, toddlers hate it when you try to make them stay outside the bathroom... LOL.

Posted by Teresa at January 20, 2005 08:43 PM

I am very needy when it comes to "me" time, being a bit of a loner (and female). I need the space, the quiet, just to read or blog or do whatever, so I hear you.

Someone told me once that the way to obtain something is write it down. Seems you have done that.

Hope you get your wish in the best possible way very soon.

Posted by Rachel Ann at January 22, 2005 01:16 PM
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